About Susan Berland

Susan Berland is fiercely committed to guiding young people and their parents back to a loving, accepting relationship when the parents are struggling to accept their child as gay, bisexual or transgender. Susan guides parents and their kids to communicate effectively, trust one another and accept one another where and as they are.

Here are my most recent posts

More on parenting adult children

More on parenting adult children

Continuing the theme of parenting adult children, another of my readers wrote to me about a young adult son. “One of my problems has to do with communication and respect, expressing gratitude instead of just taking things for granted and being entitled. I don’t get...
Challenges of being a parent

Challenges of being a parent

I recently asked my newsletter audience about the challenges they face as a parent. This is one response I received: “My challenge is related to my children. All three are grown and gone several states away. I rarely see them, my relationship with my gay child has...
What is wrong with North Carolina?

What is wrong with North Carolina?

I just read that North Carolina Republican lawmakers want to make same-sex marriage illegal in their state. What is wrong with these people? I thought most lawmakers were attorneys. I didn’t go to law school. I didn’t even go to college but I understand that the when...
Accepting our children

Accepting our children

A while back I wrote about the expectations we have for our children. Sometimes we don’t even know we have them until they are shattered. That was certainly my experience when my son came out to me in 1989. While I wasn’t surprised to have him tell me...