About Susan Berland

Susan Berland is fiercely committed to guiding young people and their parents back to a loving, accepting relationship when the parents are struggling to accept their child as gay, bisexual or transgender. Susan guides parents and their kids to communicate effectively, trust one another and accept one another where and as they are.

Here are my most recent posts

A tribute to moms

A tribute to moms

There has been a lot of press recently about the mom who broke off ties with her gay son on the day of his wedding. That broke my heart. Her son and his husband are wonderful men from all I’ve read They are loved and supported by the love of one set of parents. That...
When people aren’t accepting

When people aren’t accepting

A too common challenge for parents of LGBTQ kids is lack of acceptance from family and friends. This is especially true for the moms and dads who were raised in the evangelical church. Many parents have a period of adjustment, of soul searching when their child comes...
More on parenting adult children

More on parenting adult children

Continuing the theme of parenting adult children, another of my readers wrote to me about a young adult son. “One of my problems has to do with communication and respect, expressing gratitude instead of just taking things for granted and being entitled. I don’t get...